To all my esteemed thinkers, the bold dreamers, and the seasoned souls embarking on new journeys—
Whether you’re fresh out of school or hitting that reset button at 50, there’s something we all share: the need to move forward. We can’t rewind life or relive our greatest hits. The past? It’s done, gone, outta here. But here’s the good news—moving forward doesn’t mean losing out. It means stepping into something better, something that might just blow your mind.
1. Acknowledging the Change:
Let’s start with the big one—change. It’s inevitable. And yeah, it can feel like trying to squeeze into those jeans you loved back in high school. You know the ones I’m talking about—the ones that once made you feel like a rockstar. But now? Well, let’s just say the zipper has other plans. But here’s the thing—change is not the enemy. It’s the growth you didn’t even know you needed.
Think of yourself as a butterfly. The caterpillar days? They’re behind you. But now, you’ve got wings. And let me tell you, flying beats crawling any day.
2. Seeking Strength and Capacity:
Now, I know letting go is tough. It’s like that old video game you loved—except you’re trying to play it on a brand-new console, and guess what? The buttons don’t work the same way anymore. So, pray for strength, for the capacity to let go. You can’t win this game with old strategies. You need fresh moves, new energy, and maybe a cheat code or two (spoiler alert: gratitude and faith).
3. Finding Peace in the Present:
Ever notice how we spend so much time worrying about what we lost that we forget to enjoy what’s right in front of us? It’s like being at a party and focusing on the people who left early. Forget them! You’ve still got music, friends, and a dance floor that’s all yours.
Even if life doesn’t feel as grand as it once did, find peace in winning the battle in your mind. Focus on the here and now. That’s where the magic happens.
4. Gratitude for Now:
Here’s a life hack: start a gratitude journal. No, seriously. Write down three things you’re thankful for every day. Think of it like a mental workout. The more you flex those gratitude muscles, the stronger your outlook gets. Before you know it, you’ll be seeing blessings everywhere, like finding loose change in the couch cushions.
5. Letting Go to Receive:
You know those old photos, mementos, and keepsakes you can’t seem to let go of? They’re like emotional clutter. Holding onto them is like keeping old food in your fridge—at some point, it starts to stink. Create a “memory box,” tuck those treasures away, and make room for the new stuff. And yes, that includes decluttering your phone and computer too. Let it go. You can’t move forward if you’re constantly looking back.
6. Returning to Your Roots:
Remember who you were before life got complicated? What were your dreams, your passions? Sometimes, to move forward, you’ve got to go back to the beginning. It’s like rebooting your computer—sometimes, the best fix is a fresh start.
Reconnect with that younger version of yourself. It’s not about reliving the past; it’s about bringing that spark into your future.
7. Moving Forward Stronger:
With all this newfound wisdom, you’re not just moving forward—you’re moving forward stronger. Sure, life might have knocked you down a peg or two, but you’ve also gained something: resilience. And let me tell you, that’s worth more than gold. Sometimes, the universe takes something away just to make space for something even better.
8. Living with Gratitude:
Here’s the final takeaway—live every day with gratitude. We don’t know how much time we’ve got, so make it count. Laugh, love, and live fully. Wake up with intention, and remember that every day is a chance to start over, to do better, and to be the person you were always meant to be.
Letting go of the past isn’t about forgetting—it’s about making space for the future. Embrace the present, trust in your journey, and believe that what lies ahead is filled with promise and potential.
I believe in you. And when you start believing in yourself? Well, it’s just a matter of time until we’re all celebrating your success on the other side. The best time for change? It’s right now. So, when do we start? Now is always the perfect time, So let’s get started!
Until next time.
Love Always.
John Maurice