By John Maurice
Happy Holiday season to everyone, wherever this message finds you in the world. Let’s take a deep breath and pause to reflect on something truly meaningful—the essence of Christmas.
We’ve been told that Christmas is about giving. But what if we’ve misunderstood what “giving” really means? Society tells us to spend—to drain our wallets on shiny things that promise happiness but rarely deliver. We’ve been programmed to believe that the size of our gifts equates to the depth of our love. And so, we chase. We consume. We fill our lives with things, only to feel emptier than before.
But here’s the truth: Christmas is not about things. It’s about people. It’s about moments. It’s about love. Real love—the kind that connects us to each other in ways that no material possession ever could. It’s about being present, not presenting.
For too long, we’ve been sold the idea that more is better. But what if the secret to a meaningful life is actually found in less? Less stress, less debt, less chasing what doesn’t matter. And more of what does. More laughter. More connection. More time spent with the ones who truly matter.
Stop the Cycle
For the young people just starting out in life, hear this: you don’t have to follow the script that society hands you. Don’t go into debt trying to impress others. Don’t believe the lie that happiness comes with a price tag. True freedom isn’t about buying more; it’s about needing less. Keep your money. Share your love. Spend your time creating memories, not chasing validation.
For those starting over after divorce or hardship, let this season be a new chapter. You can’t change the past, but you have the power to shape your future. Release the burdens you’ve been carrying and make space for joy. When the holidays feel overwhelming, remember: it’s not about perfection. It’s about presence. Real freedom is found in letting go of what doesn’t serve you and holding tight to what does.
A New Kind of Wealth
Let’s redefine what it means to be rich. Being rich isn’t about having millions in the bank. It’s about having love in your heart, laughter in your home, and peace in your soul. It’s about waking up every day and knowing that you’re enough. That you have enough. That the life you’ve built, filled with love and meaningful connections, is the kind of wealth that money can’t buy.
Imagine this: 60 seconds of pure joy. A minute spent laughing with your children, embracing your partner, or simply savoring a quiet moment by the fire. That’s the real gift of life. And it doesn’t come wrapped in bows or nestled under a tree. It comes from living authentically, from being fully present, from cherishing what truly matters.
The Greatest Gift
This Christmas, give yourself the greatest gift of all: the gift of love. Love for yourself, first and foremost. Because when you love yourself deeply, you create a foundation for loving others. Be the light that shines in the darkness. Be the love that the world so desperately needs.
Life is short. Too short to waste on chasing things that don’t matter. So, start today. Let this holiday season be the beginning of a new chapter. A chapter filled with meaning, with purpose, and with joy.
As you step into this season with a new perspective—one that values presence over presents and connection over consumption—I know you’re already on the path to something greater.
As always you know that I believe in you and now with you believing more in yourself and not just in outside sources, I just want you to know that This is your moment to redefine what this time of year truly means—to let go of the past, embrace the present, and create a future that reflects your deepest dreams. I can’t wait to see you on the other side of your transformation.
Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, and Happy New Year. Let’s make this season a season not only just about love but one of transformation and love.
Until next time
Love Always,
John Maurice